True Colour??

Surprisingly how human beings can change their moods/attitudes/behaviors that fast... Well,I should have know bout that... It just that I didn't expect it to be that fast.. Somehow it goes beyond my expectation.. Finally,I get to understand what do people mean by ' as time pass by,you'll see the true colour of your friend '...

First of all.. FRIENDS?? What does that word mean to you? It might be a simple word but yet it is strong enough to turn your world upside down... To me.. A friend will not turn my world upside down.. You might think that I'm naive but it's ok.. At least that's what I thought.. I love friends.. And I really do.. When I'm with them,somehow deep inside my heart.. I feel so secure.. They won't hurt me and in fact,they'll always be by my side whenever I need them.. But how do we get friends? Like people said,

"Strangers are friends waiting to happen."

You might bump into a stranger today and who knows.. One day,you two will meet up again and at that time,the both of you no longer be stranger to each other but FRIENDS.. So this is how we got friends - Through strangers..

Secondly,do you ever got hurt by one of your most trusted friends and you're still having trauma over it?? Then you shouldn't be upset towards that kind of friendship because

"A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out."

"Many people will walk in and out of your lives,but only true Friends leave
footprints in your heart."

He or she that had betrayed you is not your real friend.. So,why must you be upset over something that is fake?? Pack your stuff and leave the bad memories behind.. It is the right thing to do.. No point bringing yourself back to something which is not reality... But it does hurt a lot though it's fake.. Because we're human.. We have feelings.. Well,as long as you remember the real friend who walks into your life,leaving his/her footprints in your heart and didn't leave you behind when the whole world does.. It's more than enough to cure that hurt... ( I thanked God that I have two real friends with me when I really need those strength and courage to cure my heartache )

Thirdly,talking bout true colour at the top of the post.. Well,I might witnessed it a few times in my life when I'm still studying in primary or secondary school.. Just that it didn't leave a great impact to me.. But in college.. Somehow.. It does matter.. It really hurts a lot.. The feeling of secureness that I used to have just vanished.. And the trust that I used to cast upon that person has just gone with the wind.. It's just so terrible.. It teaches me one thing and the thing is - not to judge a person by its look.. He/She might look trustworthy and can be a good friend of yours.. But before you know that person true colour.. Please do not trust that person with all your heart.. Because if you did that and one day,you find out about that person's true colour... At that time,it's so much difficult to let go of the feeling and in the end,you'll get hurt... Trust me.. It will because I faced it before.

Last but not least,though it hurts.. I'll still cherish every moment/friendship that I once have with them.. Because no matter what.. They're still my friends.. I would like to end this post with a poem..

A friend is some one who reaches out for your

hand and touched your heart.

A friend is someone we turn to when our spirits need a lift.

A friend is someone we treasure for our friendship is a gift.

A friend is someone who fills our lives with beauty,joy and grace.

And makes the world we live in a better and happier place.